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Dec 13
2008

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ALLEN BRADLEY 889N F4AFNM 6 4 PIN MALE FEMALE PATCHCORD NEW IN PACKAGE
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LUMBERG CONNECTOR CABLE M12 Female Str x M8 Male Str
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82 Ft RS232 DB9P Female to Male 8P Mini Din PLC Cable for Proface GPW CB02
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HUBBELL 50 A TWIST LOCK 50A MALE  FEMALE PLUG SET USNP
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Amphenol Male  Female Connectors W 8 Feet Of P N 5390 15C 18AWG Cable
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ALLEN BRADLEY  879D F4ACDM 0M3 SER B 4PIN FEMALE MICRO TO DUAL MALE MICRO NEW
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BELDEN MALE FEMALE CONNECTOR CABLE FOR DEVICENET 3082A
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Daniel Woodhead SDS200 300 volt 56 amp lumberge 5 pin female 7 pin male microch
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Assortment Temperature Thermocouple Control Fittings Male Female Differen Types
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8 Ft 25M RS232 DB9 Female to Male PLC Programming Cable for Omron CQM1 C200HE
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Thermocouple K Type Ceramic Connector Male  Female
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DB9 Female to Mini Din 8P Male Adapter PLC Cable 79 Ft for Emerson EC Series
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37 Pin D Sub Male to Female Connector Cable 36 Inch DI Veeco 464 000 003 robot
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Square D Seriplex 5 Pin Micro Cable Male Female Control Bus 9931 CBL2222P38XQ6
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FANUC A660 8006 T874 MALE AND FEMALE CABLE ASSEMBLY NNB
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LUMBERG CONNECTOR CABLE M12 Female 90Deg x M12 Male Str
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Turck Bus Stop Sensor Cable WSM RKFPV 5711 1M 5 PIN Male Female 250V 4A Lot of 2
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DB9 Female to Mini Din 8P Male Adapter PLC Cable 79 Ft for Emerson EC Series
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Female DB9 to Male Mini Din 9P PLC Cable 95 Ft for AB MicroLonix 1200 1500
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Female Male
Female Male

Male Sexual Abuse Of Boys

Child sexual abuse is as much about power and domination as it is about compulsion.  The object – female, male or both – is a reflection of erotic imagery and fantasy.  But the action encapsulates repressed rage that treats the sexual act as a weapon against the victim.  This is true of the incestuous relationship as well; although it is more likely here that the victim is the unintentional consequence, not the target, of these repressed forces.

As with subjects I have previously written about - men abusing girls, women abusing boys, women abusing girls, older children abusing younger children and now with men abusing boys, we see that the psychological underpinnings are very similar.  In fact, the sex of the offender and the sex of the victim is always a secondary consideration to the physical and psychological impact of the misuse of power by a trusted authority figure on a much younger person.   That said, there are differences in the way a young person processes and is able to come to terms with childhood abuse depending on their own gender and the gender of the abuser.

Over the past decade there has been an eruption of scandals surrounding sexual abuse of boys by Priests.  Despite the public glare on these scandals, abuse of young boys is still generally under-recognized, under-reported and under-treated.   Just like sexually abused girls, sexually abused boys grow up exhibiting guilt, anxiety, shame and low self-esteem.  Frequently, they are self-destructive and even self-mutilating.

But what is different about the abuse of boys – especially boys abused by men – is that it often precipitates crises about sexual orientation and gender identity.  This is related to shameful feelings of being less manly because they were victimized; and if the abuser was a male, then they fear it has affected, will affect or is an indication of their sexual orientation.   Girls who are abused by women do not automatically fear that they are Gay, but with boys it is different.  It has to do with a culture of male homophobia and what it means to be "Masculine", which has created a lot of anxiety and fear in boys over the prospect of being Gay.

Masculinity is an ideal for men.  Masculinity in our culture is recognized as heterosexual.   Masculine men are not victims, they are aggressors.  They cannot be penetrated; they penetrate.  They do not have sex with other men.  They have sex with women and they procreate.  Masculinity is a key part of male gender identity - the public expression of sexual orientation.  So once a boy has been victimized, penetrated and had sex with another man, with or without their consent, their masculinity is compromised and therefore their sexual orientation is called into question.  There is such profound shame attached to this notion for most boys that men with sexual abuse histories often have severe problems relating intimately to both men and women.

If the boy grows up to be homosexual, he might wonder if it had to do with the abuse or else rationalize that it does.  And it turns sex with men into a conflictive affair of desire vs. rage that many times leaves him emotionally numb.  If the boy grows up to be heterosexual, he may either become homophobic and/or have constant anxiety about his sexual functioning (sexually abused men consistently score lower than sexually abused women on sexual self-esteem measures). This sense of inadequacy  can make it difficult for many men to remain sexually intimate with a woman or even enjoy sex.  In contrast, there are a significant proportion of abused men who can only relate sexually, using sex as a weapon or shield from more emotionally intimate relationships.  "In addition to its self-soothing aspects, sexual compulsivity represents for many men a repetitive attempt at mastery over their original sexual victimization."  (Richard B. Gartner, 1999).

What about the abuser?  Traditionally, male abusers of boys have been identified as homosexuals, thereby adding another slanderous tag to the gay male population and  confusing the sexual abuse of boys with gay sex.  But "Virtually all male abusers of boys consider themselves heterosexual" (Gartner, 1999).   Pedophiles, even if they only abuse boy children, are different from homosexuals who like to have sex with younger men.  There is a profound difference between sexual abuse and gay sex – one connotes control over a child, coercion, force, exploitation and abuse, and the other connotes a sexual choice and an encounter freely entered into by two adult males.

Most sexually abused children know their abuser.  But even if it's a stranger, the profile of  a male abuser is fairly consistent.  He is more likely to be heterosexual than homosexual, he himself was probably abused as a child, he has unusual fantasies and compulsions,  the act is more about power and control than it is about sex, and usually a current stressor sets off the abuse.

Roni Weisberg-Ross  LMFT

http://www.roniweisbergross.com

2010

About the Author

West Los Angeles based psychotherapist specializing in the treatment of sexual abuse, emotional abuse, chronic depression and social anxiety.  Roni sees individuals, couples, families and leads a weekly AMAC (Adults Abused as Children) support group at The Family Resource Counseling Center.

Can a male and female cousin sleep in the same bed and NOT be sexual?

Let's say you and a female or male relative live together for some reason; your bed is broke or needs fixing; your female/male cousin tells you that you can sleep with him/her tonight just out of the kindness of his/her heart. Would you do it? Also, would other relatives freak out if you tell them this?
If your family suspect incest, would you get offended and pissed?
I'm talking about grown people, not kids

Yeah, i've done that before. My and my guy cousin are very close in age (he is 17 i am 18) so we are also very close friends. It's really not a big deal if you don't make it one. When his family comes to visit mine or i go to visit his (he lives half way across the country) we talk all night and end of falling asleep in the same bed or room. Some people might think it's weird but he is a cousin and a close friend and absolutely nothing happens at all. We barley even touch.
I don't think other relatives would freak out, especially if you are helping them out. If you don't make a big deal out of it then they shouldn't either. But if you make it seem like something happen and act guilty, then they will assume something happened.
and no, i don't think i would be offended, i would just laugh it off and say something sarcastic like "yeah, of course something sexual happened, i've always wanted to bang a cousin and i always had a thing for insect"

Female to Male to Female

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